Paddy has been a member of Xflirt for a few years and used it as a place to mix socially, online with as many women as he could. He wrote to us asking if he might be the "record holder" for taking over 2 years to find the right match. In fact Paddy, you are not alone. We have had members signed up for 5 years or more and they still haven't taken the plunge to stick with one partner.
The nice thing about Xflirt.co.uk is that members can lie dormant for as long as they want, not having to pay anything for membership fees. You only pay when you actively want to connect with someone. Paddy is so happy he found Patricia but admits that it causes confusion if someone shouts out PAT and they don't know who they are addressing - Patricia or Patrick.